I had one of those moments this morning with Avery when I just wanted to press the pause button on my life and keep things this way forever. It was a simple thing, but one of those life moments that are so special and precious that you, the parent, know how valuable it is. She's been doing really well lately on mimicking sounds and she makes an attempt at pretty much any word you ask her to say. This is huge progress from even the summer and we are so excited.
She has recently found it funny to repeat sounds or exclamations such as "oh yeah!' or a silly laugh, snort or noise. I did one of these laughs this morning and she kept repeating it, followed by giving me an eskimo kiss, which she also just learned to do. She let out big belly laughs and gave me those huge, Avery smiles each time I made the noise, and she tried her hardest to match it. Then she would play with my hair and rub my face, because she loves when I say, "mama's hair, mama's face." I'm sure many parents understand this feeling - when your child learns something new, and is so proud of it that they want to do it over and over. Plus, I got the feeling that she was so happy to play a game and get full attention from her mommy, since that isn't always the case with a new sister around. This back-and-forth exchange was so simple when you compare it to most kids, but to me, it's a big deal. It shows she sees, she is learning to mimic sounds, and she's cognitively more developed. This reaction to my funny laugh will probably come from Lucy when she's 12 months old, and Avery is approaching 4 years in April. This is why these moments are so very precious and I have a celebration inside each time they happen. Because we worked so very hard and waited so very long to get here.
I just had to include this entry so I could look back some day when things are bad, and remind myself of this special moment.
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